I really enjoyed reading this, and I’m definitely adding everything you mentioned to my reading list. I think almost everyone can relate to your experience in some way. I’m the same when it comes to loaning money. My rule of thumb is simple: if you’re going to expect it back, it’s better to just say no. If I have it and feel led to help, I give it freely with no expectations of repayment. It keeps things clear, protects relationships, and allows the gift to truly be a blessing.
I also truly believe that God honors unselfish giving. When we give with the right heart—without strings attached—He sees it and blesses us in ways that often go far beyond money. There’s something powerful about trusting Him enough to give freely and letting Him handle the rest.
Your stories always bring so many memories and images to mind.
I've always tried to look at lending (or giving) as if it were gambling, and the golden rule of gambling is, never bet what you aren't willing to lose. It also reminded me of a personal rule to never get into business situations with family, which is what I am trying to extract myself from this year. Giving of a gift, is different than a business venture.
So, once again you've taken an interesting ramble through the field of Matthew 5 (and six and seven). And given it a new spin to be pondered.
Seeing everyone as a clean, unjudged, whole person, is often challenging, but not impossible.
So glad you were able to get some use out of my rambling! Ha. Seriously though, I appreciate hearing how WTNT affects you. Yeah... seeing people as you mentioned is difficult for sure. I imagine coming across a bum literally holding a bottle of Jack Daniels in a paper bag asking me for money for food. Should I give the money if I have it? If I am taking the word seriously, I would say yes. Give and let the chips fall where they may. Maybe saying, "I'll give this money to you, but can I pray for you first?" would help temper that human desire to walk by. Anyway, see you in a couple weeks!
Metaphorically speaking, I try to keep in mind that money is not what the homeless, street drunk needs. If I can provide what it is he truly needs I will, but I also realize that most likely what he truly needs, I may not be able to provide.
I really enjoyed reading this, and I’m definitely adding everything you mentioned to my reading list. I think almost everyone can relate to your experience in some way. I’m the same when it comes to loaning money. My rule of thumb is simple: if you’re going to expect it back, it’s better to just say no. If I have it and feel led to help, I give it freely with no expectations of repayment. It keeps things clear, protects relationships, and allows the gift to truly be a blessing.
I also truly believe that God honors unselfish giving. When we give with the right heart—without strings attached—He sees it and blesses us in ways that often go far beyond money. There’s something powerful about trusting Him enough to give freely and letting Him handle the rest.
Well said. :) Thanks for stopping by and listening to Walking the New Testament!
Your stories always bring so many memories and images to mind.
I've always tried to look at lending (or giving) as if it were gambling, and the golden rule of gambling is, never bet what you aren't willing to lose. It also reminded me of a personal rule to never get into business situations with family, which is what I am trying to extract myself from this year. Giving of a gift, is different than a business venture.
So, once again you've taken an interesting ramble through the field of Matthew 5 (and six and seven). And given it a new spin to be pondered.
Seeing everyone as a clean, unjudged, whole person, is often challenging, but not impossible.
So glad you were able to get some use out of my rambling! Ha. Seriously though, I appreciate hearing how WTNT affects you. Yeah... seeing people as you mentioned is difficult for sure. I imagine coming across a bum literally holding a bottle of Jack Daniels in a paper bag asking me for money for food. Should I give the money if I have it? If I am taking the word seriously, I would say yes. Give and let the chips fall where they may. Maybe saying, "I'll give this money to you, but can I pray for you first?" would help temper that human desire to walk by. Anyway, see you in a couple weeks!
Metaphorically speaking, I try to keep in mind that money is not what the homeless, street drunk needs. If I can provide what it is he truly needs I will, but I also realize that most likely what he truly needs, I may not be able to provide.